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| 1 Foreword
7 Introduction 10 Gifting and delight 16 Imaginings 20 Ritual, magic and meaning 24 Attention, observation and contemplation 28 Bigger than oneself 32 Loss 38 Memorial 42 Releasing 46 Offerings 52 Sensuality 56 The best laid plans 60 Act of art and just plain fun 66 What will happen? 72 Integration 78 Locations 80 Participants 81 Acknowledgements and photo credits |